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“You find peace not by rearranging the circumstances of your life but by realizing who you are at the deepest level” Eckhart Tolle
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Lindsey Elliott
Mar 19, 20201 min read
Our attention is one of our most precious resources.
Where we place our attention matters. In this current situation with Covid-19, it feels even more important to decide how much of our...
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Lindsey Elliott
Feb 12, 20201 min read
A helpful metaphor for problem-solving and making a decision.
When we have a problem we tend to go to our intellect and think 'harder' about something in order to find a solution. Invariably we feel...
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Lindsey Elliott
Jan 22, 20205 min read
Challenging the Traditional Narrative: A Different View of Self-Care.
There is a lot of emphasis on self-care today, especially for women. And this a good thing on so many levels. However like most concepts...
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Lindsey Elliott
Jan 22, 20201 min read
Anxiety about our children's future (or anyone we love).
Logically we know we can't know what the future holds for us and our loved ones. But this doesn't stop our minds from going there - to...
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Lindsey Elliott
Jan 16, 20201 min read
How our children can't make us feel anything.
When our children misbehave or don't listen, it can be really seductive to believe that this is causing our feelings of stress, anger,...
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Lindsey Elliott
Dec 19, 20191 min read
Help with tricky relationships
I explore here what I have seen about conflict within relationships, that I hope will be useful for you - How we all live in different...
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Lindsey Elliott
Nov 22, 20195 min read
Melting the ice of our beliefs.
When we understand how things work, generally we can work with them better. For example, when we know how a smart phone or laptop works...
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Lindsey Elliott
Nov 21, 20191 min read
What if what we think about ourselves isn't true?
Who we think we are is always changing, ebbing and flowing. And as such, we don't have to take this seriously or try to fix/change...
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Lindsey Elliott
Nov 19, 20192 min read
What is the Top 40 playing in your head?
I recently heard the brilliant Michael Neill (www.michaelneill.org) using this metaphor. It made me laugh, thinking back to my teenage...
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Lindsey Elliott
Nov 14, 20191 min read
Can we be OK with not feeling OK?
I'm talking here about the nature of the human experience, where our feelings and low moods really come from, and if we can be OK with...
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Lindsey Elliott
Oct 25, 20195 min read
How thinking about the future is futile, and can trip us up.
We all do it. Find ourselves thinking about the future, imagining conversations we might have with people, or scenarios we may be faced...
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Lindsey Elliott
Oct 24, 20191 min read
How our experience is created within us.
In this video I am discussing how our experience of the outside world, events, people and life is created within us, and doesn't come...
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Lindsey Elliott
Oct 17, 20191 min read
Recognising wisdom and intuition
In this video I talk about how to discern between listening to our wisdom, and listening to our 'personal' thinking. I give examples from...
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Lindsey Elliott
Oct 11, 20191 min read
All about emotions and feelings.
In this video I talk about emotions and feelings: where they really come from, and what to do (or not!) about them. Please feel free to...
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Lindsey Elliott
Oct 11, 20195 min read
Self-adhesive labels and the Manager in your head
I want you to imagine, if you will, a light bulb covered in hundreds of sticky notes. Written on the notes is variety of words such as:...
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Lindsey Elliott
Sep 27, 20195 min read
What is real, and what is illusion? And how can this help us in our lives.
Over the many years that I have been exploring the spiritual side of life, one of the concepts that has, quite frankly, baffled me is the...
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Lindsey Elliott
Sep 20, 20191 min read
How the mind works and our true nature.
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Lindsey Elliott
Sep 12, 20194 min read
Being human: understanding our emotions.
Like all of life, we humans are a paradox. We are both human (with a physical body, senses, thoughts, beliefs, emotions), as well as...
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Lindsey Elliott
Sep 9, 20192 min read
What if, what you think isn't personal?
I’m going to say something potentially controversial, but also potentially liberating. What if what you think, the thoughts that pass...
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Lindsey Elliott
Jul 26, 20193 min read
What if, the more thinking we have about something, the more we'll struggle?
I am sure you are like me, and have areas of your life that seem to flow easily. Yet there are others where you struggle to make changes....
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